Recognising the signs of prostate cancer

In December 2020, Paul began experiencing urinary retention – producing very little urine and feeling little urge to go. Initially, he blamed long hours on the road. But his wife, Rebekah, urged him to see a GP.

“I’m so grateful to my wife for encouraging me to visit the GP. I wouldn’t have gone otherwise, but it was absolutely the best decision for me.”

Tests revealed traces of blood in Paul’s urine, prompting an MRI scan. Although his PSA (prostate-specific antigen) levels were borderline, a biopsy confirmed the diagnosis: prostate cancer.

Meeting his consultant

Paul was referred to Mr Ben Sherwood, Consultant Urological Surgeon at The Park Hospital. From their first meeting, Paul felt reassured.

“He is utterly brilliant. Kind but direct. Within five minutes, I felt comfortable talking to him about my prostate, my sex life, and my feelings about the diagnosis.”

After discussing treatment options, Paul and Mr Sherwood agreed on robotic prostatectomy – a minimally invasive surgery using robotic assistance to remove the prostate.

What is robotic prostatectomy?

Robotic prostatectomy is a type of keyhole surgery performed with the help of a robotic system, such as the da Vinci X. The surgeon remains in control at all times, using robotic arms to perform precise movements. This approach can reduce side effects and speed up recovery.

Prostatectomy surgery and recovery

Paul’s surgery took four and a half hours due to scarring from his biopsy. Mr Sherwood kept Paul’s family informed throughout the procedure.

“He even called my wife and mother-in-law to reassure them. That meant so much.”

Paul stayed in hospital for five days due to a pre-existing condition that increased his infection risk. He praised the nursing team and facilities:

“The room was spacious, the care was excellent, and the food menu was like a hotel’s. I just wish I’d had the appetite to try more of it!”

Life after a prostatectomy

Paul’s recovery has been steady. His PSA levels are now normal, and he attends regular follow-ups. After eight weeks off work, he’s back to full-time driving, golfing, and spending time with his family.

One ongoing challenge has been erectile dysfunction – a common side effect of prostate surgery. While treatments haven’t worked for Paul yet, he’s noticed gradual improvement.

“It’s affected me mentally more than I expected. But I’ve seen slow progress, and it’s worth it for my health.”

Raising awareness of prostate cancer

Paul is now passionate about encouraging others to check their prostate health. He supports prostate cancer research through charity golf events and speaks openly about his experience.

“Knowing how and when to self-check is so important. Early detection can save your life.”

Facing the future after prostate cancer

Today, Paul is cancer-free and embracing life with renewed energy. Whether it’s golfing with friends or laughing with his children, he’s grateful for every moment.

“I keep getting little wins back in life. It feels really good.”

Disclaimer

We are very grateful to Circle Health Group – one of the providers we collect data from – and its team at The Park Hospital for sharing Paul’s story with us so that we can share it with you. However, please note that PHIN provides information to support your healthcare decisions, but we do not recommend individual providers. It’s important that you explore all your options before choosing where and how to receive treatment.

Some patients may base their decision on the cost of treatment (if they are self-funding), while others may follow the guidance of their private medical insurer. Others might prioritise the experience of the consultant or factors related to the hospital, such as its regulator rating, location, or facilities.

We encourage you to research thoroughly and make an informed decision that’s right for you. We’re sharing Paul’s story to help you understand what your experience might be like and to support you in asking the right questions when considering your healthcare options.